If all the friendship and humour elements are starting to kick into place including he’s hot and sexy in bed too, you might well be on your way to a lasting relationship. While there‘s more on whether it’s love or lust it’s worth asking yourself a few questions if you‘re starting to get serious early on in the relationship.
How badly did you want a relationship? Sometimes when we’ve been single for a while, or feel pressure of any sort, we want a relationship so much that we get stars in our eyes when almost any decent, kind bloke comes along.
Is he drop—dead gorgeous and you just can’t believe your luck? You’re on dangerous ground here. It’s very easy to get swept off your feet by that extraordinarily handsome man that actually wants to spend time with you. It may be your own level of self- confidence that’s letting you down or just simply the sheer exhilaration of it all. Or it may just be perfect. Just take it slowly to find out more…
Is sex with him just the most amazing thing in the whole world? Congratulations. How good does life get? Just make sure that you don‘t spend so much time in bed that you somehow ‘forget‘ to get to know each other a little better. Your sexual fascination for each other might wane a little after the first few months; so make sure that you are compatible and satisfied on other levels too.